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October 15, 2009

Why Love Is Always New?

Is love new when you start missing 1 am mushy mobile calls or when the calls of your heart don't find it's respective network? Is love new when the ego inflates to such imposable proportions that you actually start hurting yourself more than others?
Is love new when you shout your lungs out for Mumbai Indians just to please someone but from inside your heart you are dying to see Delhi Daredevils win the match? Is love new when you know about your closed one's bra size or she knows about your underwear size? Is love new when Harry Potter kissed Cho Chang in The order of the Phoenix or is it when the same love potion starts spilling in your life too?

Is love new when you decides to buy white tulips for your to-be-girlfriend and she decides to propose your best friend on the same day? Is love new when you pamper your sweetheart more during her periods or when she treats you like a kid while handling with all your mood swings? Is love new when you decide to code a interface at work using the worse possible coding standards because you want to rush to meet someone special at Cafe Coffee day in the evening?
Is love new when your best friend's love marriage breaks because there is no space left in relationship for anger and hurt? Is love new when seeing the first day first show of a movie becomes so important that it can give you indirect promotion in your project team? Is love new when the wave of affection emanates from the by lanes of Feroz Shah Kotla in Delhi and culminates at the Greater Noida expressway in the half-moon struck night?

Is love new when the heartbreaks move beyond unmeasurable proportions of anger and resentment or when spells of heart-makes glue them together? Is love new when your best project mate silently adores you and helps in making sure you reach your adorable destination on time? Is love new when fight emanates over a question which always remains unanswered who is better actor/star - Aamir Khan or Shah Rukh Khan? Is love new when you stand in a queue for three hours to get two tickets to watch IPL match when your cutie-pie has already decided to book it online? Is love new when her slap-dash hair laced face in the morning after the night out makes you start writing romantic poetry?
Is love new when a men and women clash with their professional ambitions and personal admiration's? Is love new when your ex-girl friend's arrange marriage break because there is no space left in relationship for care and affection?

Is love new when the ass-lickers to your project manager makes sure your hard work goes down the company's drain and your girl friend's brain? Is love new when the percentiles of Mock CAT exams start going down or when the performances of Mock Love-AT exams start going up? Is love new when an auto driver will be the blessing in disguise for you or is it when an online friend becomes a pain in the ass? Is love new when it becomes sweetest of all sensations or is it when it becomes rarest of all relations? Is love new from the lounge rooms of your home to the boardrooms of your office? Is love new when you start believing the nutcases around you or is it when they start massaging your balls with warm Olive oil?

Is love new when you start thinking from your private parts and not from your brain cells? Is love new when you watch her gasping in delight and bask in delirium? Is love new when you reach a pretzel zone of entwined bodies or is it when entourage of various bodies become the bottom line? Is love new when you build a multistory building of trust or is it when you go zip zap zoom blindly with someone? Is love new when your atheist feelings will break because of someone's utter showers of devotion towards God?

Is love new when it breaks relationships in life or when it creates newer pastures of companionship? Is love new when its enigmatic nature makes you go through the up and down on your heart's lake surface? Is love new when it brings the smiles across all our faces or is it when it streaks the tear down our cheeks? Is love new when you are being so purposefully cryptic to safeguard details or when you want to scream out the secret in open?

PS: As the final quest begin in answering all these questions one by one, as the mystery unfolds in front of all of us, and as life throws surprises every now and then, we realise among all these emotional roller coaster rides of life, lust and relationships, that Love is always new!


Satyu said...

You are amazing.
I still wonder how could you gather all these thngs.

Abt the writeup..
Yup I agree Love is always new.
It takes birth every moment :)
When you wait for ur someone spl 4m a very long time love converts to frustration and yet again gives a new meaning to itself :)

Keep Smiling :)

Umesh Agarwal said...

Amazing post!! But new or goes on forever albeit in different forms..keep writing :)

Singh Amit said...

Cr8 write up :)
Yeah...Love is always New... Like each breath we take is always new.. :)
U r wonderful writer.. :)


bondgal_rulz said...

Ah louuu!!

Great post. :)


Mahesh Sindbandge said...

I am not sure about its newness but its forever if its true..

You made me think now... i ll think about it and will come back once i get an answer to it :)


rh3a said...

its beautifulllllllll! :)
wow wow wow!
THIS was what i was waiting for from you!
oh, this makes me soooo happy.. like love is in the air all around!
ur a genius amit!
muah! :)

Shruti said...

So many questions to be thought about.

You know you're amazing at it, don't you!


Americanising Desi said...

you make me wanna fall in love again and this time forever :)

suruchi said...

Wow Amit...Both for your post n the cute comments that follow...I guess saying that you are amazing would be very repetitive...
So at the risk of sounding not so innovative...lemme encore...
You are amazing at writing about love n filling it all around...

Plus u make sense out of such a sensibility..

sm said...

true love never becomes old

Manjari Singh said...

Is love new when he says those heart pounding words n u just listen with tears in ur eyes?
Is love new when you hate the fact that u still love him?
Is love new when u read those chats again and again.?
Is love new when u decide that he doesnt mean a thing to u?

How do we know said...

this is a super post!! yes, i read all those lines.. a little formatting does not hurt though.

I, Me and Myself said...

my my amit u really create magic wid ur words...i sooo wonder hw u do dat..

every emotion is catched thru ur post...

n i agree love is a roller coater makes us go thru so much...n hence it remains always

NEHA said...

hmm nice write up yet again!

you are an awesome writer and i will be just another girl to say so..

you just get better post after post and very addictive..

would have loved to comment first here as well..

HOPING for many more of these..

Aeish said...

Lovely Post!
P.S I'm still not in love wit you :P

Harini said...

aaww... Loved the post. A great one.

Btw.. Happy Diwali :)

Hopeless Romantic said...


hey, thanks for all those compliments and nice words, welcome to the blog, thanks for following me, keep coming!


Hopeless Romantic said...


well, quite true actually :)

your first comment here, welcome! would love to see you again!


Hopeless Romantic said...


thanks, well the admiration about writing skills is mutual here, i feel the same for your blog and writings too!


Hopeless Romantic said...


thanks :)


Hopeless Romantic said...


lol, let me know when you find the right answer, happy searching!


Hopeless Romantic said...


OMG, so much excitement, never expected this from u, good you finally liked something on the blog! :P


Hopeless Romantic said...


well, you people make me look good too !

take care,

Hopeless Romantic said...


Par pyaar faisale se nahi kiya jaata, bus ho jata hain *Preity zinta in DCH*

I guess it applies to all of us and specially to you. Don't chase love, and it would come straight away in your arms!

All the best,

Hopeless Romantic said...


well, just like love is always new, i don't mind admiration to be new every time. But i can work around with the same old nice words too :D


Hopeless Romantic said...


its a myth, true love is never static, it changes all the time, its the dynamic nature of love which makes it true in the long run!


Hopeless Romantic said...


thanks for that scribbling, and i know from where you are coming from in these lines, but see this is also a phase of love which is going to pass away only to make us realise later what we learned from it!

take care,

Hopeless Romantic said...


thanks, but can you be a bit specific what kind of formatting you are talking about here. If by chance you meant, different paragraph for this post, then i also thought about it. But, since this is a post about thoughts on a similar tone and style, it was mandatory to write it in paragraph!


Hopeless Romantic said...


well, life goes on, we learn new things only to realise how it makes love new every time. thanks for all the nice words and compliments! have fun and happy diwali :)


Hopeless Romantic said...


thanks for liking it, i hope you were earlier here too!

Better luck next time,

Hopeless Romantic said...


Thanks, give it some time, love takes its own sweet time to grow, we will talk then :D


Hopeless Romantic said...


thanks buddy :)

Happy Diwali to u too :)


Satans Darling™ said...

This could not be put across in a better way. Your writing speaks to me HR :)

One single answer to all the questions in love - It's new. So expect anything coming your way :)

M.J. said...

Great post Amit! Love, and relationships in general, ARE always new, always evolving.

Hopeless Romantic said...

@ Ashrita

thanks for the compliments, so finally you also agree that love is always new !


Hopeless Romantic said...


true, i agree! thanks for dropping by!


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